Hearken unto me, ye that know righteousness, the people in whose heart is my law; fear ye not the reproach of men, neither be ye afraid of their revilings. Isaiah 51:7
 
Sis, let them talk. Let them lie. Let them misjudge. You let go. You let yourself free as God guides you out. Keep your focus on Him. Let God handle it. Sometimes he wants you to sit back and hold your peace. Don't let bitterness, unforgiveness, or anything else contrary to the love of God lay a heavyweight in or on your heart. God is going to get you through. In the meantime, hold your peace. Pray for God to heal their heart and mind and keep it pushing, gently. In Jesus name. 
 
 
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, temperance: against such there is no law. Galatians 5:22